This group is for those over 30...or 40...or ?...or anyone wanting to connect with other grown ups out there in the world of dating, mating, and soul mate or play mate searching.

It's a place to get a reality check from fellow Voxers, to post about a date from hell or the "best date EVAR", to show funny, tempting or just plain WTF?!? personals ads, to ask for advice or solace; whatever you want to share about your own adventures in dating is welcome to be posted here. 

Posts that are off-topic will be removed.   

If it has to do with the strange and wonderful world of finding your soul mate, your next LTR or just someone not stupid, toothless or blindingly dull to spend Friday night with, this is the place for it.

Come share your stories over a cup of coffee with us. It's got to be better than another first date, right?